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Vogue UK Writer Faces Criticism Over Boyfriend Commentary

By Alex Turner
November 1, 2025
2 min
Vogue UK Writer Faces Criticism Over Boyfriend Commentary

Vogue UK writer Chanté Joseph sparked significant backlash with her article "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?" published on October 2, 2023. The discussion centers on women's perspectives on dating and has gained widespread attention on social media. Critics claim that Joseph’s comments about boyfriends being "embarrassing" have prompted outrage among men.

This incident occurs within a larger cultural context where the dating discourse has evolved. In 2022, the trend of questioning traditional relationship norms gained traction, particularly after the viral Netflix series "The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On," which challenged conventional romantic roles. Similar to that situation, Joseph's article reflects the ongoing debate surrounding women's autonomy in relationships.

According to social media analytics from 2023, the hashtag #BoyfriendEmbarrassment garnered over 100,000 views within 48 hours of the article's release, with mixed reactions. Sources close to Joseph indicate that she intended to highlight women's evolving views towards relationships, not to provoke unwarranted anger. However, critics argue her framing was detrimental.

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Joseph, known for her candid views on modern dating, previously discussed the pressures young women face regarding relationships in a 2021 interview. Her career includes commentary on societal issues affecting millennials and Generation Z, which aligns with her intent in the recent piece. As she continues to engage in high-profile discussions, her style often mirrors the provocative approach of fellow journalist Anne Helen Petersen.

The backlash highlights a generational divide in dating expectations, reminiscent of the 2018 controversy surrounding comedian Hannah Gadsby’s comments on heterosexual relationships. Gadsby also faced criticisms from men after her statements about masculinity and relationships went viral. Both incidents illustrate a growing discomfort among some men regarding changing dynamics in the dating landscape.

Joseph's forthcoming projects include a podcast series where she plans to further explore similar themes discussed in her article. The series, set to debut in early 2024, aims to facilitate deeper conversations centered on love, feminism, and societal norms.

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The impact of Joseph's article is notable, indicating a shift in how relationships are discussed publicly. As public discourse continues to evolve, expect similar reactions to forthcoming articles and media that address traditional norms.

Given the response to her recent work, Joseph's future contributions may face closer scrutiny. Analysts suggest that her approach could influence how upcoming trends in dating and relationships are reported. As society grapples with these debates, the need for balanced dialogue has never been more critical.